February - 2018

Let's Talk About Separation Anxiety...

Let's Talk About Separation Anxiety...

Let's talk about separation anxiety - ~ It usually begins around 6-8 months of age. ~ It will often peak at 12 months of age. ~ During this time, your baby who was once happy to be put down and left to his own devices, will start to protest and become upset if you leave his sight or put him down. ~ This phase is NORMAL. ~ Although many parents think it is a sign they have done something wrong, it's actually a sign of healthy development. ~ In other words, it's a sign that you

"She doesn't actually NEED me, she just WANTS me..."

"She doesn't actually NEED me, she just WANTS me..."

"She doesn't actually NEED me, she just WANTS me..." What's the difference in the eyes and heart of a baby? Mama, you are your baby's world. Her Northern Star. The centre of her universe. Babies have simple needs - they need food, warmth, shelter... But they also need love and touch. They need security - to know that someone will come if they call, in the night when it's dark and scary as well as in the daylight. To know that they are safe. It's easy to forget how big this wo

Discouraging & Disempowering Mothers

Discouraging & Disempowering Mothers

It's frustrating meeting so many new mothers who have been discouraged and disempowered by the people around them. Who are trying so hard to listen to their inner voice, only to be told that their instincts are wrong and they are creating bad habits. "The nurse told me that I'm breastfeeding her too much..." "The GP said he should be falling asleep without my help by now..." "My mother said I pick him up too quickly when he cries..." " A woman at my mother's group said I have

Our Family Bedroom

Our Family Bedroom

Someone asked me the other day what our bedroom setup looks like so I thought I would share a picture. This is our “family room”- yep, we’re all in together: husband, 3 year old, baby, dog and me. Most people are fairly forgiving of the baby in our room - apparently that’s not completely unacceptable in Western culture. But we definitely get a lot of raised eye-brows when we admit (frankly and unapologetically) that our 3 year old still sleeps in our room too. But we love it.

Is she STILL breastfeeding?

Is she STILL breastfeeding?

Is she STILL breastfeeding? Is she STILL waking through the night? Is she STILL using a dummy? Is she STILL wanting to be cuddled as she falls asleep? Is she STILL coming into your bed? Yes. She is. She still needs to be parented as tenderly through the night, as she is during the day. Yes. She still clings to people and objects that make her feel safe in this big scary world. Yes, she still seeks comfort when she sleeps and yes, I will still continue to offer her that comfor

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